I am on a journey to live a life I love and to fill my life with the things that truly bring me joy... my dream job, loving relationships, financial abundance, a healthy mind and body, and a deep spiritual connection with all that is. I am living consciously to create a life filled with all the things I love.

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Monday, August 31, 2009

Book Review: Harmonic Wealth


This book is absolutely amazing. I really liked how the author, James Ray, uses 5 pillars to divide up different aspects of your life to determine how "harmonic" our life is. When you hear the word "wealth," most people think of financial abundance, but true wealth is more than just having a lot of money in the bank. What good is a lot of money if the other aspects of your life are suffering? James Ray talks about how to achieve wealth in 5 different pillars:

1. Financial
2. Relational (Your Relationships)
3. Physical
4. Mental
5. Spiritual

By going through exercises and a series of questions in each of these pillars, I was able to look at my life from this perspective. It made me realize that I have been focusing on three of the pillars: Relational, Mental, and Spiritual, but my Financial and Physical had been quite lacking. And it's not that I'm not working on those, but because I had neglected them for so long and paid more attention to other areas of my life, I have a deeper mess to dig out of, which is fine, because now I'm clearly aware of it and am doing something about it.

This book takes a very holistic and spiritual perspective in taking a look at your life, a perspective I believe will sustain true wealth for people who are seeking a wealthy life. As you work on yourself and do the internal work necessary to become better, your external life will mirror what's on the inside. That's the true message of this book. It's a fabulous book that takes a look at life from a deeper level, one that will help you become a better person, and wealthy, not just on the financial front, but on all levels. I highly recommend it!

If you're interested in reading this book, you can find it here.

If you're interested in seeing what other books I recommend, you can see the list here.

Saturday, August 29, 2009

Trip to Central Park in New York

A couple of weeks ago, my husband and I were checking out the upper west side when I decided that we should walk through Central Park to get to the the other side to the upper east side. We're fairly new to New York, so we wanted to see all the different neighborhoods in New York to figure out where we might like to live next year. I was expecting to see just a beautiful park with trails and trees and lots of people and grass. What I discovered was oh, so much more!

For example, as we set foot onto Central Park, we were greeted with a crowd that was looking at the ground. Curious, I looked over to find a beautiful display of cupcakes shaped arranged in the peace symbol around the word Imagine on the ground. Wow! The funny thing was, earlier that week, my husband saw Yoko Ono on the streets of New York.

Here are some photos of cupcakes!




Here are some shots of a wonderful little area within Central Park that we ran into with a fountain, boats, and entertainers. I later discovered that this place is called Bethesda Terrace.



Here is the video I put together of what I saw that day in Central Park. I address the viewers as "Co-Creators" because I created this video primarily to share with the CCOR (Co-Creating Our Reality) community that I am a part of. It's a group that uses the law of attraction and other practices such as meditation and journaling for 100 day periods to improve their lives. Hope you enjoy!

Starting Fashion Design School

The real beginning of my journey is about to begin. I will be starting my full-time fashion design program in a couple of days, and I've been warned again and again by staff, administration, and students alike that the program is very, very rigorous. And if you are doing the one year fast-track program, that it is truly "crazy." I'm not discouraged, though. I've done it before. 9 classes at one time, 2 graduate degrees at the same time. People told me it was "impossible" then and I faced a lot of skeptics along the way, but I completed a rigorous 3 year program and a 2 year program in a total of 3 years total. Anything is possible. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. And if they do, don't listen to them.

It is what you believe that you can do that counts. I know I can do it. And my proof is that I've done it before. Sure, it was probably the most difficult time in my life in terms of work load, hours, and I sacrificed a tremendous amount of sleep along the way, but I learned a ton and would never take it back in a million years. We're all evolving and learning and adapting is essential to that process.

The time I am spending now is on preparing for the program. I attended orientations, made sure I was still registered for my classes, and figured out where all my classes are. In addition, I am making sure that I signed up for a payment plan and am making sure all the loans and funds come through to financially make this program happen. I am also organizing and cleaning everything at home so that I do not have to worry about searching for lost items. Utilizing time effectively is essential in this program. I've been warned. I've been warned. I know it can get crazy. Design school is much more rigorous than anything I've ever been through. In my opinion, design school was much more work and rigor than my MBA program, 10x over. And I was forewarned about that program too.

In the back of my mind, I do wonder... why am I doing this to myself again? And I have to gently remind myself that I am following my dream and following my passion. This will be what lights my heart on fire and I will never work a day in my life again...because I will do what I love and I will love what I do. Simple as that. I've already been working into the wee hours of the morning on all sorts of things I never imagined doing even a couple of years ago. Did I imagine that I would be putting content on three different blogs and two different youtube channels? Not a chance. Do I make money on them? Not yet, but hopefully they will. Whether or not they do, I just feel like I have to do it regardless. It's my contribution to the world at this time in my life when I am not working at a corporate "job" to contribute my talents.

It is here I contribute my thoughts, my lessons, and share the teachers I've discovered along the way. They have all been invaluable in my journey to discover myself, my true self, and to discover what my soul longs to do. I know I was born to be a designer. I love to create. I love to make. I love to work with my hands. I love beauty. I love learning new things. I love to share what I have learned with others. So here I stand at the onset of a new adventure that I'm sure will be one crazy ride, but I will love it every step of the way.

Friday, August 28, 2009

Preventative Medicine is the Best Medicine

Diet and exercise is the key to health. You've heard this all your life, so why are so many people suffering from so many diseases around the world? Sure, there are some people that have come here with a higher purpose--to balance out their energy in this life through a pre-determined disease, something that was charted out in their soul's plan--but many of us are suffering from illness needlessly just by eating unhealthy foods, not exercising, and submerging ourselves in negative emotion.

The cure is not in pills! Start with your diet, exercise, and treat yourself with kindness. Start by loving yourself for who you are, not for who you wish to become. You are already beautiful and lovable in every way. As you work on your inner self, your physical body will follow. For now, start by opting for healthier options. Incorporate salads and maybe cut out the soda and deep fried foods. Start with what you can, and little by little incorporate more nutrition and exercise that you enjoy! And remember to have fun! Fun is important food for your soul. :)

Here's a video of Bill Maher talking about pharma.

Thursday, August 20, 2009

Staying True to Yourself

When you start to follow your passion, your dreams, and the things that excite you and bring you joy, you begin to discover a side of yourself that had been buried for many years. It is your true self, the person you may have been when you were younger, possibly back when you were a child, and have not been since.

Growing up, society, circumstances, and teachers around you taught you how to behave, what was acceptable, what was applauded, and what was frowned upon. Through this sort of "programming," we slowly became someone that others wanted us to become. Sure, we might have wanted to go down this path ourselves, but most of us picked the safe and more conventional route. A few of the bold and courageous ones dove for their dreams, knowing there was no safety net below. What's unfortunate about this situation is that even those that I knew that went for their dreams slowly saw their dreams fade and the need for financial security reined them into a "normal" 9 to 5 job. (These days it's probably more like 8-6 or more hours.)

The majority of us became one of the masses and although we tried to convince ourselves that our jobs were super-important and may have at some point felt like we were part of some huge project that was going to make a big difference. However, the result was always the same...we made a big difference for the company we were working for, or whoever our customers or clients were, and eventually the excitement there wears off until we feel like we're just part of the daily grind, going to work just for a paycheck. And if only there was a way out. Well, there is.

The choice is to go for the things that excite you, and spend some time reflecting on what it is that really makes you you. This is a difficult question for many to answer. For some it is easy-- they were born with their talent shining and their passion aligned with this talent too. But many of us have talents, but these areas are not necessarily things that excite us nor do we see ourselves turning these talents into a career. I played violin for 14 years, but not once did I consider that a career path even though my parents might have dreamed about it while I was growing up. And, I was immersed in the fine arts since I was 7, but somehow oil painting did not necessarily spark my passion much either.

The difficult question for many of us to answer is where do my talents and passion intersect? This was a difficult question for me to answer, even with years of soul searching, and I'm not even convinced I have found it yet. But each day I make a commitment to doing the things that bring me the most happiness and joy, whether it is cleaning my home so that I can have the ultimate relief of seeing a clean space, or reading that book that I really wanted to get through. Little by little, the things that we have passion for emerge because we will have been doing these things anyway, even without getting paid to do them.

I read books and magazines about certain topics because they interest me. I watch videos to learn things that I am interested in. I spend my time with certain hobbies that I know are not going to really be a part of my career, but I do them anyway because I have finally given myself permission to do things for fun and not just for work. Through this process I know I am discovering who I really am...who I've always been.

You've heard the phrases before:
"Stay true to yourself."
"Follow your bliss."
"Do what you love and you won't work a day in your life."

This is true, and I'm beginning to discover the depth of what these phrases mean. No matter what my financial situation is at this point, I've decided to dedicate my time, energy, and thoughts toward doing the things that make me happy, and making the time to do those things. Yes, we need to pay our bills and make money, but what's more important in our lives is to listen to our soul and follow our hearts. The money will follow. I have faith, and I am moving forward.

The hardest part is figuring out what exactly our careers will look like in the future. I've decided to just move forward with the things I've decided thus far and use my heart as a guide for every step I take. If I am excited about this work, then I'll do more of it. If I find myself dreading it, chances are that it's not the right path, so I'm going to try something else that feels right. And I've also decided not to let money influence my decision.

I've been guilty in the past of thinking about what business would be lucrative with the skills I have first rather than thinking of my passion first. Or, I would think of a skill that I have learned where I can do work that will help others, and I know it will be noble work since I am "helping people," but my heart's not really into it. I've learned that both ways are not the way to go. How can you make a living doing something you feel like you "have to do" for money, or you "should do" to help people? Where are you in the equation?

It may sound a bit selfish at first, but we must absolutely put our own passions first. By following our heart, we are able to achieve something even greater than we imagined, just by becoming our best self. The opportunities will appear at the right time, when we are ready.

So, for now, I'm going to take it day by day and do the things that really make me happy. If I want to learn how to make banana bread, that's what I'll do. If I want to learn how to golf, I'll find time to make it to the driving range. If I want to learn how to garden, I'm going to do that too. It doesn't matter that I live in a concrete jungle, I'll make my garden indoors. There's always a way to do what you want, but it is imperative that you give yourself permission to do the things you want. As simple as these things seem, they are the things that make your soul sing. These are things you always wanted to do but never gave yourself permission. And each thing will draw you down a path towards your happiness. Now is the time. No more excuses. Be who you are, not what anyone else wants you to be. And listen to your heart. You'll find that it speaks to you if you will find some quiet time to listen.

And if your heart says, quit your job, move to a different city, change your career, and go back to school, you might find yourself in a position similar to me. I'm learning to let go of the things that no longer serve me and let go of the things I used to value a lot in my old way of thinking (like money). I am, in many ways, shedding the old me to find who I truly was all along, bright and shining underneath, a creative and happy soul. If only I had let myself free sooner... but I am so glad I have decided to move on and follow my bliss. :)

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Our Soul's Plan

Lilou Mace interviews Robert Schwartz, the author of the book, Your Soul's Plan. This is a very insightful interview where Robert talks about our soul's plan and how we plan our lives to balance our energy.

Part 1:


Part 2:

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Amazing Talent

What amazing artistic talent combined with a story that has had such a deep impact in our history. Wow. This girl won the Ukrianian version of "America's Got Talent" competition. Kseniya Simonova is the Ukrainian artist in this video that uses a giant light box, music, and sand painting to interpret Germany's invasion and occupation of Ukraine during WWII.

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

Interview with Dr. John Demartini

A great interview with Dr. John Demartini where he shares his challenges growing up, shares a lot of insights and wisdom, and also talks about love in his life.

Monday, August 10, 2009

Oprah's Acceptance Speech

An old video showing Oprah's acceptance speech for the Lifetime Achievement Award at the 25th Annual Daytime Emmy Awards. I really love that she has been a beacon of light for so many of us. We love you Oprah!

Friday, August 7, 2009

Decluttering Your Books

If you're an avid book-buyer like me, chances are, you have tons and tons of books that are you have been collecting on your bookshelves, waiting for the opportunity to read them all. But, if you're like most people, you're busy working and taking care of the family, and have other more pressing matters at hand, which leaves you little time to kick back to relax and read. And maybe when you get to those moments, you just want to do something a little bit more relaxing and uses less brain-power after spending a long day at the office. So, you might opt to watch TV or browse websites instead.

So, why hold on to all of those books? Are you REALLY going to read them? Chances are, you will lug them from home to home as you move, or you will accumulate more books that you want to read first. And this is how clutter begets clutter.

Let's stop this process of accumulation and start purging what we don't need! For me, I had to start with my bookcases because it was what has been taking up the majority of space in my home. No room for picture frames, photo albums, or anything else. Just piles and piles of books. Books that are interesting, for sure, but to be very honest, with all the things going on in life, those were no longer pertinent for the direction I was headed. So, I am purging, and purging, and purging.

In the past I've been so fed up with having so much stuff that I just amassed a huge pile of belongings and lugged them to Salvation army for a donation drop-off. Then, I discovered that they do not accept books! Oh my. So, little by little I was either posting books on craigslist or giving them away for free...until recently.

In this economy, I want to bring in any extra income while purging. So, in the past few weeks I have decided to sell everything and anything that I can that no longer serves me or my future (even if I have yet to use it myself!). It will find a better home with someone who will put the book or object to use immediately.

Sell Your Books!

Amazon.com
I've been very happy with the response I have received from Amazon. I have been posting my books up there and have sold between 1-9 books per day. Pretty amazing. Just search for the books you have, and there's a link that says "Sell yours here" under the Used and New Books link.

The money I've made has already been disbursed to my account. You can disburse your funds at any time. I'm a huge fan now and will use Amazon as my first go-to source for selling books I've read. Just list your books for a penny lower than what others are selling it for.

However, recently I've discovered a little drop in the volume of sales. I think my most popular books have already gone, or people are just not buying the books I'm selling right this moment. And there are books that I have that are not really worth that much and people probably won't be looking for these titles any time soon.

So, I was very excited yesterday when I discovered that you can sell books online to some booksellers! Don't hold your breath on this one because you won't make a lot of money here. Amazon will give you much more for your books, but it also requires you to pack and ship each one individually. I found an easy way to do this. Package it in a yellow manila envelope with some padding around each book and voila. Ready to ship via Media Mail. And make sure you send all your books via Media Mail. You'll save yourself a lot of money on shipping costs!

Other Booksellers Online Seeing as I am eager to get rid of the books that no longer serve me so that I can move on to decluttering the rest of my home, I discovered some websites online that will offer you some money for your books and will allow you to ship the books to them for free. This allows you to get rid of books in bulk. They do not accept all books, so you will have to list your ISBN numbers on various sites to see which ones that accept.

I've been able to package four boxes of books this way, and all from just one night's work. Amazing. And some of those books I did not think would sell anyhow, so better to sell them for something than keeping them in your bookcases forever.

Here are the websites I've used and had success with:
Here is another one that I ended up not using, but looks like it offers something similar:
If you live in the UK, I received a recommendation for websites there that are working for others in the UK:
It's often hard to let go of things we've hung onto for so long, but once you decide you can live without it, it is quite liberating to see your life become lighter and lighter. I love it and now I'm searching for more things that I can live without. Instead of being burdened by the stuff I own, I want to be free to experience more of life. And I can always just go to the library and borrow books if I ever need any of these books again! And if I can't find them at the library, I can buy books one at a time that I will read right away. No more stock piling books to read for a future day.

There's a decluttering book that I've been meaning to go through (that I currently own and have not given up for sale yet). I think I might try and go through it step by step and really focus on making this next year a time to only surround myself with the things I absolutely love, need, and find useful. I know my life will be more rich because of it. Decluttering is like a diet. You've spent time accumulating and amassing stuff, much like what happens when you gain weight, and it takes effort, commitment, and a burning desire to let it all go to come out victorious in the end. But it's all worth it. Come join me! Let's simplify our lives and lead a more fulfilling life, filled with ideas, experiences, and dreams rather than stuff!

Here's the book I mentioned, called One Year to an Organized Life: From Your Closets to Your Finances, a Week by Week Guide to Getting Completely Organized.


Great title, isn't it? Maybe I'll blog about my progress with it here. Use the "Decluttering" label on the right to find all my blog posts about this topic. Good luck with your decluttering project!

Looking for Love?

Are you still looking for your soulmate out there? Watch this video! It is so funny and wise. Enjoy!

Thursday, August 6, 2009

Finding Ways to Bring in Money

I know a lot of people are looking for ways to bring in some additional cash these days, especially those who:
a) were laid off
b) are currently unemployed
c) are changing careers
d) are going back to school
e) had to take a pay cut due to your company's performance

And then there are those that are also affected by the economy, but not directly through their jobs. These include those who:
f) have had their credit limits reduced
g) are maxed out on the credit cards
h) have bad credit and can't get additional credit
i) are trying to sell their properties
j) lost a considerable percentage of their retirement accounts
k) lost a considerable sum of money in other investment accounts
l) had unexpected large expenses such as health care costs, car accident, home repairs, etc.
m) had their credit card companies drastically increase their APR

As you can see, there are a multitude of reasons why people are in financial difficulty these days, and the impacts of these can pretty drastic. Foreclosures, short sales, evictions, collection company notices, bankruptcy, closing down businesses, etc. Whether the reasons you are in financial difficulty by choice (because you decided to pursue a different career, move to a different place, etc. to pursue a better life) or you were a "victim" to the economic circumstances (in which case, you are STILL responsible for the events that have occurred in your life), we can all use some additional money right now.

Let me explain what I mean by "victims" being responsible for the events that have occurred in your lives. The reality is that we are only "victims" when we consider ourselves such. The more you consider yourself a "victim," the more life will deliver situations and circumstances that make you feel like a "victim." The truth is, we are not victims, even if you were laid off or some injustice occurred, remember that we are all responsible for the life we create for ourselves. We do this with our thoughts, our beliefs, and the affirmations we say to ourselves every day. All you need to do is change your thoughts. If you can change your thoughts, you change your words, which change the habits in your life, which will result in a different outcome. Doing things that make you happy will keep your emotions positive and you will get closer and closer to what your life was intended for.

Sometimes big, ugly things happen in our lives to give us a wake-up call that we are going down the wrong direction. Consider these blessings. The sooner you "wake-up" and realize that the direction you're headed down is not making you happy, the sooner you can choose to make a change that can alter the course of your life forever. There are hidden blessings in ever event that may originally seem to be a bad thing. Look for the lesson that these events are trying to teach us, learn from them, and then you will choose to take steps towards doing things that bring you joy.

Use your emotions as your compass. Only you know what is good for you, and you have the answer to all of your questions inside of yourself. You may receive signs from your environment or people around you, but the answers are within your heart. No one knows what you want better than you. If you are weighing options, pick the one that makes your heart flutter with excitement rather than the one that makes your gut or jaw tighten because deep down you really don't want do take that path. Don't do what you "should" do. Do what you WANT to do. This is very important. Because even though the path towards your happiness may seem more "risky," trust in the universe to want good things for you and always deliver what you need when you need it. There is always a way, even if you may not see the answer clearly in front of you right this moment.

Let me give you an example of how I am living this out. I took a look at my finances, and my finances look like everyone else's, if not more heavily indebted for now due to costs of the lifestyle we chose to live and the degrees I chose to pursue. Anyhow, there is no blame here, no "we should've done this instead," or any other negative thoughts. The only thoughts I'm choosing to have now is to observe my current situation and think, "ok, so this is our starting point, and therefore this is where we will start." Everyone has a different starting point. It's like a diet. Depending on how well you took care of your body for all these years, you are in a different position than the person next to you. You cannot blame anyone else for what has happened to you. Even if people try to influence you, ultimately, it is your decision to take someone's advice. It is all up to you.

The world is truly your oyster, and you can choose the reality that you want. You choose now, and little by little, as you believe that what you choose is rightfully yours, the world around you will begin to change and the opportunities that you seek will start coming your way. Believe this, try this, and keep practicing until you can master this. It is one of the laws of the universe.

In my world, I am looking at my finances and thinking that if I truly want to change careers and go back to school, I need to find a way to finance it. I declared to the universe that indeed I will be going to school, and there will be a way for me to pay for the tuition, preferably in cash, and then I opened myself up to the opportunities and thoughts that came my way. I held onto this thought over and over for the past 6 months. I trusted that the money will come and that I will be able to go to school this fall. Now, that time is coming up quickly. I am approximately 2 weeks away before I start classes. Up until now, I have been financing my other courses on credit card, but this is not a good solution.

Let me summarize what has manifested for my tuition for this upcoming fall semester:
1. Small merit scholarship
2. Stafford loan
3. Mutual fund account money
4. Corporate stock shares money
5. Reimbursement for taxes overpaid on property
6. 401k disbursement from last job since the balance was under $1,000
7. Amazon book sales
8. eBay sales

1. Small merit scholarship
This was an interesting manifestation. After I received my acceptance letter, I was still debating whether I should make such a drastic change in my career. It was a risky move, by conventional standards, and I wasn't 100% sure if this was the direction I was going to pursue. To help lessen my own fear, I declared to the universe that if I received a scholarship, then I would definitely move forward in this direction. I had no idea how I might receive one, but that is what I declared. I ended up writing an email to the admissions office to see if scholarships had been distributed yet, and they mentioned that it was in the process. I just wanted my name send them an email to make sure they knew I was interested. A week later, I received a letter in the mail stating that I had received a merit scholarship. Wow. I was shocked myself. Since that moment, I committed to this direction and decided to find other ways to make money.

2. Stafford Loan
After submitted my financial aid form, I then received a letter in the mail within a month or so stating that I had received a government loan for each semester. Now, I was up to about 40% of what I needed to pay for my tuition.

3. Mutual fund account money
My mother called me one day to tell me that I had a mutual account that she had transferred over to my name after I graduated college. I had completely forgotten about it, even though I received statements in the mail. I had been so busy that I had not had the time to keep up with those statements. It turns out there's enough money here to cover the majority of the remainder of the tuition for the fall semester.

4. Corporate stock shares money
While cleaning out the papers in a huge pile, I discovered a statement from a stock shares program I had enrolled in with a company I used to work at. I thought I had liquidated it all, but it turns out there was some money left in it. I called to see what the it was worth, and it was more than I expected. Another bit to help me cover the costs.

5. Reimbursement for taxes overpaid on property
We also received a check in the mail for some property taxes we overpaid on our old place. I wasn't expecting this at all, so it definitely helps!

6. 401k disbursement from last job since the balance was under $1,000
In my last job, since I wasn't there for a long time, my 401k contributions were under $1,000 total, so I received a letter in the mail stating that they were going to send me a disbursement for the balance unless I decided to roll it over.

7. Amazon book sales
This was an amazing find that I discovered. I had tried it years ago with not much luck, but this time around, it has been keeping me busy. I have been trying to declutter my place and make extra cash by selling my books on Amazon. This time, I am sending items Media Mail (I had lost quite a bit of money last time by sending everything regular mail and just spending time to send items while making no money), so everything has been working out great! I have sold 72 books so far, in only a couple of weeks. Pretty amazing! I highly recommend this route if you have lots of books that you know you won't be reading. Amazon gets tons of traffic.

8. eBay sales
Certain items are good for eBay. I had some additional stuff that I really didn't know what to do with that I decided to put on eBay. Don't expect to make much here, but every bit helps these days!

So, my point in telling you all of this is that if you keep moving forward with your goal and intend your desired outcome, somehow, some way, opportunities will arise and creative ways will come about for you to get to your intended outcome. Listen to your gut and let your feelings guide you. Do what feels good, and you know you're going the right direction. Trust that what you are intending is on its way to you. Listen and watch for opportunities, ideas, and signs, and act on them. Sending you much love, peace, wealth and abundance in your lives.

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

Sweet Dreams

What a cute little film with a great message. I love it! I hope you do too!

Sweet Dreams from Kirsten Lepore on Vimeo.

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